Wednesday, November 14, 2007

The Weary Traveler

Hubby and I were asked a question just the other day. "Are you two ever at home?"

For the past couple of weeks, the answer has been no. Hubby and I have been gallivanting about…fulfilling our immediate purpose in life. To see, experience and explore.

And I'm tired.

Hubby's parents embarked on a cross-country trip and dropped in for a visit. This has been a year in the planning, and I've been looking forward to it for the entire time. In the nine years that Hubby and I have cohabitated (eight of them as a married couple), his parents have never come to visit us. Geography has not been very cooperative. And when it has, there has always been some unfortunate twist of fate that prevented a visit from happening.

His father assisted in the initial move-in for the two of us, driving a trailer-load of Hubby's belongings across the state to our new abode…the cute little two bedroom apartment on Davis Islands. After that, the fates never aligned for another visit. We drove north to visit them at least once a month while we were in the same state. When we moved a couple of states away and they planned a visit to our little military home, Hubby found himself in circumstances that were not conducive to a weekend-long visit from his parents. The planned visit fell through.

We moved across the ocean. His parents planned a visit - excited to visit us and see a foreign land and experience a new culture. Alas, before they purchased their passports the tragedy of 9-11 happened and suddenly flying was a no-go. So another visit was canned.

So now here we are. Across the country and a few days drive away. And finally they come to visit. Of course, I prepped like a mad-woman. This was the first time they have come to visit, after all! The house was what I call "mother-in-law" clean. I cleaned for days in advance and did everything I could to ensure that they would be comfortable in our little nest. Hubby did his best to stay out of my way. And when the reviews came in, I passed muster! Insert warm fuzzies here. J

Dadoo and Momoo spent a few days here in our home and we did our best to show them the sights around us. Even though Hubby is suffering the after-effects of a recently broken foot and has to hobble around on crutches (perhaps the fates most recent attempt at foiling a visit - but we would not give in this time!) The day after their arrival, we took them up to the deepest canyon in the United States. The following day, it was a scenic drive to the coast for lunch. We spent a day relaxing around the house and then we were off on our grand drive - a week touring the region around us and seeing as much as we could.

We started with Yosemite National Park on day one. As many times as Dadoo had been there, he had never ventured up to the most amazing overlook - Glacier Point. We wanted him to experience this amazing sight, so we directed him onward. Hubby had to sit back and wait - once the drive was over, it was a quarter-mile hike uphill to the vantage point. But it wasn't a big deal after all, Hubby and I had been up there many times. So I escorted the 'rents on up while Hubby stayed back and sat at the lower overlook.

After that amazing experience, it was on into the park - through the scenic portal into the park (the most photographed spot in any National Park) and across the granite encrusted Tioga Pass. This is a favorite spot for the Hubby and myself. Absolutely amazing scenery - overlooking the Ansel Adams wilderness leaves you in awe of the creations of Mother Nature.

Once across the pass, we made a brief stop at Mono Lake and ventured forth to Reno for a night's stay. I have to say that I was disappointed in Reno - I would have liked to see the "big lights" and was anticipating something like the strip in Vegas. Sadly, Reno failed to deliver. Sure, there were casinos with lights, but not all together in a strip. Very disappointing indeed.

We awoke bright and early the next day to begin our next adventure - a drive into the Pacific Northwest. And this did not disappoint! We skirted around lake Tahoe and ventured back into California. But northern California differs from the area we live in quite a bit. It became quite obvious that we were in different terrain as soon as we saw the tall trees. Conifers galore!

Before we ventured outside the Golden State, we had one more stop on our list. Mount Shasta - the first on a list of great mountains that we hoped to see on this journey. We made it to the town of Shasta and found the road that lead to the top of the mountain. A short drive found us at the end of the road, on the wind-whipped top at 7,900 feet - looking up at the south end of the peak of the second-highest mountain (14,179 feet) in the Cascade Mountain Range. The view from the top of the road was amazing. The panoramic view down from the mountain was breath-taking. Looking up at the back of the glacial carvings on the back of the mountain left you stunned at the course of nature. We stayed for just a bit, amazed at the scenery around us. Then the cold started creeping past the protective barriers of our jackets and it was time to go.

We journeyed further north, crossing into the great state of Oregon. We made an overnight stay at Klamath Falls and started out bright and early the following morning to venture forth on our great adventure. Our next stop was Crater Lake. This amazing volcanic formation is the result of a mountain pretty much imploding on itself and the result, I'm told, is absolutely breathtaking. America's deepest and clearest lake, nestled in the crater of a former volcanic mountain. I say that I'm told this lake is absolutely breathtaking because we didn't actually get to see it.

We made it to Crater Lake National Park, and as we climbed up the mountain to get to the lake Mother Nature reminded us of her great powers and the weather began to turn. We climbed up, up, up and found rain. And as we kept climbing, the rain became snow. First little flurries dancing on the windshield, and then caking on the side of the road. We found ourselves at the base of the rim drive around the lake and unable to actually see the lake. Of course, the road that leads around the lake was closed - the snow clouds created a fog that was so thick that you couldn't see more than a hundred feet or so. We were at the visitor's center and unable to see past the edge of the parking lot.

So we began our descent down. On the way, we found ourselves immersed in a winter wonderland. Snow on the ground, snow resting in the tall trees. Very few vehicles were venturing up the mountain on this day, so the park was filled with a peaceful quiet that seemed to go on forever. We made a few stops here and there - to admire the river that created the gorge lining the park and see and hear the crashing of Annie Falls. To venture off the road just a little bit and listen to snow crunch beneath our feet, find animal tracks in the snow and enjoy the wonderland around us.

Undaunted by this minor setback, we ventured on. Pressing north, we found ourselves in a very small town at lunchtime and settled in at a very small-town-like gas station/diner for some of the best burgers we had ever tasted.

The further north we traveled, the worse the weather seemed to get. As we closed in on Mount Hood (at 11,249 feet in elevation, the fourth-highest peak in the Cascade Mountain Range), we drove through rain, rain and rain. With a sprinkling of snow, depending on our elevation. Fog was a constant - so much so that we couldn't even see this great mountain as we skirted around it on our detoured route. (Detoured because our desired route was closed due to snow.) So we crossed this desired location off our list and pressed forward - on to out next night's stay at The Dalles.

Day four saw us awake bright and early and ahead of the weather. We embarked on a scenic drive through the Columbia River Gorge along the Oregon/Washington state lines. Seeing the early morning sun color the sky and the canyon was just beautiful. We drove along the gorge, admiring the Columbia River's work (carving a canyon 4,000 feet deep and settling in at sea level) and took a drive along some of the waterfalls that feed into the river.

Alas, as we moved on, the weather caught up with us. As we pressed on to the next major destination on our agenda, Mount St. Helens, the rain found us and pressed on with a vengeance. We ventured into Washington and into the Mount St. Helens National Volcanic Monument with the best of hopes. We stopped at the visitor's center and found that the road was open and we were told where to stop to look for elk. "They're always there," the ranger assured us. As we journeyed into the park, climbing up the mountain, the rain and fog found us. Certainly, we were afforded stunning peeks into the valley below. We could make out lava flows, rivers of ash covering broken trees and the replanting of the forest around us. But the elk had more sense than we did, apparently, and were nowhere to be seen at the scenic overlook. Undaunted, we pressed on and soon found ourselves at the top of the road - the observation deck overlooking the caldera.

Unfortunately, in addition to the observation station we also found freezing rain, wind and fog. We tried, we really did. Hubby crutched all the way up the hill with us and we sought refuge in the station. We viewed the exhibit housed in the station and learned all about the eruption and resulting lava and ash flows. We oohed and aahed over the fiber optic display showing the area and what happened where. Eventually we conceded defeat and headed back down the pathway to the parking lot. We had made it to the top, but the weather won out and denied us the opportunity to view this magnificent beast of a volcano.

Working our way back down the mountain, the weather improved only marginally and we stopped for lunch while still in the park. Feeding the local economy while feeding ourselves, we rested in the warmth of the gift shop/restaurant and planned the next stage of the trip. We had a few days left of travel to do, and the last major stop on our list awaited - Yellowstone National Park. So we tweaked our plans slightly - eliminating a sojourn to Maple Valley to see the changing of the leaves (we had so far seen plenty of trees, after all, both of the changing variety as well as the evergreens) and ventured on.

Driving as far as Dadoo dared in the weather, we settled in for the night in a quaint hotel out in the middle of nowhere. Packwood, Washington. Dinner consisted of take-out pizza and our attention focused on the Weather Channel, where we learned that this weather would be our travel companion for the next few days.

Day five - we awoke, packed up and moved on. Breakfast was served continental style at the hotel and we were in Yakima for lunch. And for a failed attempt to locate a Starbucks. We're all quite acquainted with Yakima now, but still couldn't tell you where to find a good cup of coffee there. Venturing East we found ourselves surprised with a day of mostly clear driving conditions and scenery we never expected to find in Washington. We found ourselves leaving the familiar trees of the Pacific Northwest and moving into "Big Sky" country. High desert, canyons and gullies greeted us as we pressed on towards the Rockies. It was a very brown landscape, yet it did not disappoint.

As we approached the white caps of the Rocky Mountains, the weather found us again. Climbing into the Rockies, and passing through Idaho into Montana, the rain again turned into snow the higher we climbed. Climbing over Lookout Pass (elevation 4,680 feet) from Idaho into Montana, we passed the worst of the weather for the day and began our controlled descent down into slightly lower ground and journeyed on to our next night's stay in Missoula.

Day six was set as a short day for driving. We awoke in Missoula and ventured a couple of hundred miles into Gardiner, the gateway to Yellowstone. It was an easy drive - we stopped for photos and found ourselves headed into a picturesque valley leading into the Yellowstone area, surrounded on either side by snow-capped peaks.

Arriving in Gardiner, we quickly discovered how much of a presence wildlife plays in this area. As I was unloading the van, I found myself surprised by a deer or elk just on the other side of the parking lot, grazing on shrubs outside the building! He seemed tame enough not to be bothered by a group of gawkers and even stayed around long enough for Dadoo, Momoo and Hubby to join me outside to marvel over him. He wasn't even disturbed by a hotel employee opening a door and passing right next to him on her way back into the building!

We settled into our lodging in Gardiner and decided that it was early enough to check out a little bit of Yellowstone. We drove through the picturesque town and found the stone gate to Yellowstone on the very edge of town. A few miles into the park is Mammoth Hot Springs and another elk sighting. We were so excited to spot an elk Buck lounging in the brush on the side of the road on out way in. Little did we know…

As soon as we got into Mammoth Hot Springs and stopped at the visitor's center for information, we found ourselves surrounded by elk. There was a buck resting in the middle of the village with his harem all around him. They were lounging in the courtyards and lawns between the buildings, grazing on the grass and resting. It was amazing…they were so close to us that we had to watch where we stepped! As people gathered around to observe the elk, a ranger was giving a talk about the buck and his harem.

Flush with the excitement of this sighting, we worked our way down the road and stopped at the springs. Hubby stayed back in the van - the boardwalk through the springs was wet from the rain and just looked too slippery. Momoo, Dadoo and I ventured out onto the short path that lead to the base of the springs and marveled over the colorations in the rocks, the steam emitting from the pools and the stench of sulfur emitting from the entire area. Truly amazing.

Back in the van, we decided to see how far we could get into the park before dark and found some side roads that lead us up and overlooking the Mammoth Hot Springs - a perfect vantage point for Hubby to get out and see what he missed down below. Deciding against venturing out into the springs on the boardwalks we stood at the overlook and took in the sights from the top.

Further down the road, we found ourselves surrounded by evidence of the fires that swept through the area in 1988 and the new growth generated since. Seeing new life flourish amidst such devastation was humbling - Mother Nature's spectrum can range from relentless to gentle all in one season. Her ability to heal after such a disaster is astounding.

Wildlife reigns supreme in this national park. As we journeyed on the roads, we saw a wolf venturing through the trees, and elk and bison in the meadows, woods and right alongside the road. We could have reached out the window and touched the bison, if that were a wise idea. Venturing further into the caldera of the park, we witnessed dense forests, open meadows, hot springs along the roadside, and geysers and their steam plumes in the distance. Yellowstone is truly alive with activity at every turn.

After a quick stop for souvenirs and another stop just off the road to see Norris Geyser Basin, we decided to head back to the hotel for the night. The thought of driving on the roads after dark, amongst the bison and elk roaming through the park, was disconcerting to say the least.

The following morning, we were met with a surprise. Snow! We ate breakfast at the hotel and debated whether or not to try going into the park. Before long, we decided to try to get in as far as we could and were off, with the back-up plan being that we could spend the day resting at the hotel and do a little souvenir shopping in the town.

We ventured into Mammoth Hot Springs again and found that the inside of the park was blanketed with snow. It was beautiful. We stopped at the hotel there for a little bit of shopping and attempted to venture a little bit further into the park. We went as far as we felt comfortable going and wound up turning around in defeat a couple of miles down the road, when we found slush on the street.

Back in the town, we found lunch and a nap. In the early afternoon, Dadoo looked outside and decided that it looked like the weather had cleared up some and we should try for another trip into the park. It turned out to be an excellent idea. The snow had let up and the roads had cleared up enough to let us get all the way to Old Faithful. We toured the historic Old Faithful Inn and witnessed the famous geyser going off, right on time. Another round of gift shopping and we were on our way back out of the park, with enough time on our hands to take a couple of the scenic loops leading past waterfalls, hot springs and geyser basins.

The remainder of this trip was spent driving to our departure point, Billings, Montana. We spent the night there and Hubby and I departed the next day from the airport on our way home. We flew over the Rockies and into Salt Lake City. From Salt Lake City, it was on to Fresno. The sights on the ground below from the vantage point of an airplane were stunning. The Great Salt Lake stretched on forever. Mono Lake and the Sierras from above were gorgeous. It was so neat to see the giant trees in miniature, against the grey granite of the mountain range and blue of the lakes below.

We finished up the weekend unpacking and lounging around our house. It was so good to be home!! The dogs and the cats were happy to greet us upon our return and our clan was reunited again. I had a few days of the return-to-the-work grind ahead of me and then it was off to the next great adventure.

Unfortunately, I spent two days fighting off a migraine headache. Taking Hubby to the hospital for his follow-up visit post-surgery, and my almost passing out right there in the cast-making room was enough. I spent all day Tuesday in bed, doped up on Hubby's prescription strength Ibuprophen. By Wednesday, I felt better but was now stressed out. A million things to do, not enough time to get it all done! Work is high-stress as it is, but then I had all the unpacking from our previous trip and the preparation for our upcoming trip thrown into the mix!

Thursday morning saw me kenneling the dogs, arranging for the cats, and working. At the end of the work day, I came home, finished up laundry and packed the car. Getting Hubby settled in, we ventured off in his Nissan 300Z and headed north.

As I was driving up the freeway, I came to the conclusion that I am far too conservative of a driver for this car. I could feel the car beneath me, begging for more than I was willing to give it. The twin turbos rumble in this thing, and when I pressed on the gas to accelerate and pass another vehicle, I could feel the Black Beast saying to me, "Oh yeah…that's it…let's go faster!"

An overnight in Stockton, and we were off on Friday morning to meet in Manteca. In the rain. I'm sensing a pattern here - and in this car, the rain is not my friend. :/

Rising and shining well before my desired wake up time, we made it out of the hotel by 6:30 am Friday morning to make it to the drivers meet in Manteca. It was an opportunity to meet with old friends and catch up before beginning our long weekend of driving these monster machines through the amazing scenery of this golden state.

Getting everything squared away over morning cups of coffee, we were off and running - one of seven Zs touring the state. A drive through some winding country roads and into Yosemite National Park and our second run over the Tioga Pass in two weeks. The scenery was no less amazing this time, even with the newly falling snow swirling around the windshield.

Lunchtime saw us on the border of Mono Lake and in a favored diner in Lee Vining. Thirteen people gathered around the table and fun times and stories were shared. Lots of catching up to do, as it had been some time since some of us had seen each other. And some of us were meeting for the first time…it's amazing how a love for these cars bring people together like that.

After lunch, we drove south and skirted around Mono Lake, taking in beautiful scenery and preparing ourselves for the drive ahead…winding and dipping roads at high speeds. No oncoming vehicles to worry about, no other traffic on the roads. We had managed to shed the wet weather after descending the Sierras before lunch and were ready to go! We accelerated and enjoyed - surrounded by the beauty of nature and feeling the amazing sensation of speed on clean roads. How amazing it was to ascend a hill in the road and see the car before you drop over the crest…like it is falling off the face of the earth! And feeling the floating sensation in your stomach as you crest and dip, just like a roller coaster!

Before long, we found ourselves in Bishop for the night. Arising the next morning, we found that rain had passed through the town, but the storm had quieted. Leaving a soft blanket on the mountain tops around us, the storm left us a breathtaking sunrise…seeing the crisp white on the peaks over the city and the changing blues of the sky as we looked westward. More of Mother Nature's artistic creativity.

After breakfast it was off again - climbing up to the Ancient Bristlecone Pine Forest to overlook the valley below - we found a little bit of snow on the ground this year, but nothing compared to the slushy roads that we found last year. This time, the roads were clean and dry, allowing us to rip up the mountain and take the curves of the road as we saw fit. We were earlier than any other morning traffic, so the roads were our own as we climbed and climbed - reaching the scenic overlook for a quick break and an opportunity to take in the stunning panorama of the Sierra Mountains and the valley below.

The late morning saw us driving into Nevada on one of the smoothest stretches of road around. Here, in the empty desert and the glass-smooth highway, speed creeps up on you and you find yourself soaring down the road, thoroughly enjoying the sensations of the machinery at your fingertips and the adrenaline that only speed can provide.

Venturing back into California and the north-eastern gate of Death Valley National Park, we were greeted with the stunning array of desert colors provided by this magnificent area. Rustic reds meld and intertwine with pinks, golds, sunset-tinted oranges and foamy greens, all set against the crystal blue sky dotted with fluffy white clouds. Stunning scenery worthy of any artist's pallet indeed.

Lunch was had at Scotty's Castle, and it turned out well that Hubby and I had already been there twice before - embarking on both tours offered by the National Park Service of this manse in the middle of the desert. Hubby's broken foot would not allow us to embark on any tours this year, so we rested under the trees for a picnic lunch and enjoyed the company of friends.

After lunch, it was a quick jaunt over to Ubehebe Crater. In some infinite lack of foresight, two motor homes full of German tourists pulled out in the midst of our convoy through the desert. Most fortunately, we were all communicating via two-way radios and those in the front passed on news of clear lanes ahead…allowing the three of us in the back the call of safety for passing these behemoths on roads that did not allow you a clear view of what was ahead. As I pulled over into the oncoming lanes and opened up the throttle of the machinery beneath me, I felt the car purr with satisfaction as I pushed the accelerator and pulled ahead of the vehicles impeding our progress. I'm pretty sure that we probably scared the living daylights out of the Germans in the lumbering behemoths as three little sports cars roared by!

Stopping to take in the scenery at Ubehebe Crater, if but for a brief time, we found ourselves awed by the endless ability of Mother Nature to create and change her landscapes. The sky was a brilliant blue, the clouds were in such formations as to not even appear to be real…and the giant volcanic formation before us was truly stunning. Colors layered through the landscape in a perfect pattern - like it was all placed just so deliberately!

After moments of reflection and photo-snapping, we were off again. This time seeking panoramic views of Death Valley at Dante's View and Zabrinsky Point. Climbing and climbing, twisting and turning hairpin curves found us at the viewpoint that allows you to overlook Badwater Basin, the lowest point in the United States. Dante's View affords you a truly panoramic view of the valley - from the famous and much photographed mountain range to the saltwater below.

Descending the overlook, taking the same tight curves that we traversed on the way up, we soon found ourselves at Zabrinsky Point - incredibly famous dunes that have been photographed and featured in television and movies time and time again. Alas, this viewpoint required a steep climb on foot, so Hubby and I passed this time. We parted with the group and ventured on back to the hotel for check-in and rest before dinner.

A relaxing evening group dinner in the Furnace Creek steakhouse was an opportunity for more group time and getting to know each other and catch up on missed time. We whiled away the evening over steak and wine and enjoyed each others company.

Arising early on Sunday morning, it was time to head home. Leaving Death Valley, a favored spot of mine, is always difficult for me. As we drove westward and climbed out of the valley, taking in the volcanic formations around us, we took our last opportunity for adrenaline-laced driving and climbed, descended and twisted and turned with the roads, the engines of our vehicles roaring along the way. I was able to work out my technique for controlled engine braking on mountainous terrains as we climbed and climbed, then descended and coasted through the mountains and out of the valley.

And then it was time to return to the reality of the freeways. Traffic, congestion and big trucks. Yes, given the choice, I would take the wide open stretches of desert road any day. Whether in the cockpit of a speed demon sports car, or the comfortable cabin of my soon-to-be SUV.

Arriving home relatively early on Sunday, we found time to rest and relax before the weekend crept away from us.

And so now I find myself back in the grind of the work week…anxiously looking forward to the upcoming weekend that bookends the days in-between. But this time, not for the adventures that lie ahead, but for the time off to truly rest and relax.

Time to recharge.  I really need that right now.

Monday, November 12, 2007

Jeepers Creepers!

OMG!

So Hubby and I went to the dealer to order my new car today...and wound up driving one off the lot!

I've been in love with Jeeps since falling for my best friend's Cherokee a decade ago.  I *heart* the Cherokee.  I wanted a Cherokee...Icried when Jeep stopped making the Cherokee.  It was a sad, sad day.

Imagine my immense joy when I discovered that Jeep was reincarnating my beloved Cherokee in the form of the Patriot!  Since that fateful day back in 2005, I have wanted one of these machines.  So much so that I have been saving all year and plotting the sale of my Buick in order to create a nice little down payment.

The Patriot is all I've been able to talk about.  It's been driving Hubby insane.  So much so that he finally gave in and said that we could order my new car on Veteran's Day.  A Patriotic act by a Veteran on Veteran's Day, indeed.  :D

My local Jeep delaer had a Patriot on the lot that was everything that I wanted, except for the transmission. I wanted a manual, and they had the autostick. 

We told the salesman that I wanted to take one for a test drive - and I wanted my Hubby to drive it, so that he would have been behind the wheel of one before we placed our order. (We had stopped by the dealership in July and test drove the manual Limited that they had on the lot, but it was me behind the wheel that time.)

I requested that we test drive a Limited with the convenience package - I wanted to see all the bells and whistles on one in person. The salesman took a look at what was in the front of the lot and didn't see one available, so he drove us around to the back of the lot to look at what was back there. His eyes fell on the Steel Blue Limited, and I told him that that was the one I wanted...but the transmimssion was wrong.

So he got the price of the autostick knocked off for us. And we haggled for a good trade-in on my Buick. Add in a dealership $500 incentive along with a $500 military discount...and the next thing we knew...we were driving home in my little beauty!

I've got my check from the bank on the way. And I've got the UConnect working, the horn-honk turned off when I lock the doors... my splash guards are sitting in the garage awaiting install, and my cargo carpet is on order. Should have it this week.

We wound up purchasing a service contract program, and we upgraded that to get free tires for as long as we own the car. They'll also perform all maintenance (oil changes, balances/rotations) for free. That added a little bit to our final cost, but Hubby thought it would be worth it in the end. Especially for the tires. 

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It was starting to get a little bit dark by the time we got home, so I was a bit quick with taking pics. I'll get some more in better light later on.

I already enjoy the higher ride - pulling up in the driveway next to Hubby's car really showed me the difference. And as I was moving things into the Pat from my Buick, I realized that I'm really going to miss the pockets behind the seats. I guess I'll keep my map books under the passenger seat.

Otherwise, it is so nice to ride in a vehicle that doesn't stutter when I drive it. Or leak coolant. Or honk incessantly if you accidentally brush up against the steering wheel with your arm...or a piece of paper. 

Farewell, dear Mathilde.  You, the Buck in my life, will be dearly missed.

I can't wait to show up at work tomorrow in my new ride!

Monday, November 5, 2007

Easy Addiction

....whichever gaming system you might have and play these days...DO NOT get Guitar Hero.
 
I repeat...DO NOT GET GUITAR HERO!!
 
If you guys do have or get it, DO NOT PLAY IT.
 
It is seriously TOO ROCKIN'.  It can lead to delusions of Rock Deity Grandeur.
 
er...I mean you wouldn't enjoy it in the slightest.  
 
not at all.  :)
 
Seriously...Hubby just bought it for his PS3 the other night, and it is the most awesome game ever.
 
Well, that and Dance Dance Revolution.  
 
WARNING...exposure to Dance Dance Revolution can lead to Dance Offs between you and your friends.  Guitar Hero has the potential to go the same way.  Think of them as the "Gateway Games" that can lead to harsher and more addictive games. 
 
JUST SAY NO.
 
:D

Sunday, September 9, 2007

Meguiar’s Class…AKA “We Drove 260 Miles to Get My Husband’s Car Waxed.”

An article that I posted on an automotive forum, recapping a detailing class that I attended yesterday.

**Note. I'm not trying to sell you guys on anything. Really. I thought I'd share this experience, because it was just so neat. Also, someone posted a question about armor-all in the "Interior" section of this forum, and I thought this would be an opportunity to share this experience with you all.**

My Hubby is a nut about his car. He drives a 1991 Nissan 300 ZX Twin Turbo. He is a Z aficionado and LOVES his car. Since moving out here to Cali, he has managed to track down a Z car club that is a really great group of people. Let me specify that these are enthusiasts that LOVE to drive their cars…they don't garage them and only bring them out for shows and whatnot. We get out often and meet to hang out and drive our cars.

In fact, we're driving along the coast next weekend and will be spending a weekend driving to Death Valley as a group in October.

So one of our "sister" clubs from Northern Cali put together a car detailing class at Meguiar's in Irvine, CA. All Z club members were invited to attend, and we signed up.

Actually, it went more like this…

Hubby: "Remember hearing about that Meguiar's class everyone was talking about? The Z Club has one put together for September 8. I'm going. You can come if you want."

Me: "A car waxing class?? I guess I could go along for the drive and hang out with the other wives."

Well, I was pleasantly surprised.

Just so you guys know, I am not one for washing/waxing/detailing my car. When we completed the survey at the end of the class, and was asked what car care products I most commonly use, I put down "Windex." Actually, when it comes to cleaning my car, I visit the local "Red Carpet Car Wash" (former Fresno employer of K-Fed himself) and let them do all the work for me.

So we drove 260 miles, braved the LA traffic, and spent the night in Irvine, Ca. Then arose at 6am the following morning to be out of the hotel and at Meguiar's by 8am.

They have a pretty impressive set-up. We worked in a roomy two car garage bay that was fully stocked with all kinds of detailing equipment. They have a classroom just off the garage where we sat for a four-hour seminar on the history of the company (they actually started out as a furniture care company. Huh.) and learned about the evolution of their product lines. Then we moved out to the garage and saw the magic happen.

What is really neat is that they have one of everything there…stuff that is available in the stores and stuff that you have to find a specialized store to buy. But it's all right there for you to pick up and read the label.

It wasn't really a sales pitch, either. The guy that taught us the class is pretty much a professional detailer in his alternate, non-corporate life. (He's detailing the Bat Mobile later this week!) He flat out told us at the beginning of the class that he was going to tell us about a lot of stuff, and it was going to be overwhelming, but it all came down to how you want to detail the outside of your car and make it shine. If you want to do it by hand, then you only really need three products. By machine, then two.

So we learned about clay bars, quick detailing spray, scratch/swirl removers, polishes and waxes. Microfiber cloths, terrycloth towels and foam pads. Detailing machines and the different foam pads that go on them, and which one will burn through your paint and which one is fool-proof.

Now remember…I wasn't too enthused about going in the first place. But the class was very interesting and the instructor was very engaging and entertaining. I actually learned a lot, and enjoyed seeing the detailing happen.

And everyone that wanted to try something got the opportunity.

My Husband's car was the lucky candidate for the hands-on portion of the class. The instructor showed us how to look for small scratches in the clear coat that were there as a result of life in general (his car is a daily driver, after all), and how to spot those annoying "swirl" marks that appear as a result of improper detailing.

He then showed us how to remove those imperfections and make the clear coat "clear" again. Removing the haze from the clear coat is what makes the paint brighten up and "pop" again.

Everyone pitched in with some "quick detail" spray to remove the grit and grime of the drive down there. (Hubby had visited K-Fed's former employer the day before, but then we had the drive ahead of us and of all the stupid luck, there wasn't a car wash between the hotel and Meguiar's to be found!) Then everyone clay barred the car to remove all the "environmental pathogens" from the top of the clear coat. We could already see and feel the difference on the paint.

The instructor taped off the hood in sections, so that we could see definitive lines when comparing the paint in "before and after" shots. He used a Xeon light to show us the swirls and minor scratches.

He hand-detailed a section himself, and after the first pass with the first step (scratch-x) we could already see that the clear coat was clearer, there was a reduction in swirls, and the paint just looked better. He did three passes with the scratch remover, then moved on to the polish, then on to a wax. While we waited for the wax to dry, he moved over to another section and started working with the machine.

This was where anyone that wanted an opportunity to try got to pitch in. He showed us how to apply a polisher from their professional line, and then how to apply the wax. Anyone that wanted to use the machine could apply a coat of the polisher. He put the wax on himself.

After the wax was completely dry, he wiped it off. Before Hubby pulled the car out of the garage and into the sun, we could already see the difference.

Pulling the car outside, and seeing the sun glint off of the finish on the hood really drove the point home. Hubby's car is "pearl black", and you could really see the difference in the sections that had been polished and waxed, and the sections that had not. Swirl marks were non-existent. The clear coat had been "de-hazed" and the black paint really shone through. It looked deeper and richer, and the metallic flakes really shone.

Then we pulled the car back in the garage, and the instructor finished up the entire front of the car.

It is beautiful. Looks like a new car. Well, a new car with rock chips in the paint. Rock chips that really stand out because now there are no other scratches or swirls to camouflage them. J

Hubby has declared that we are using only Meguiar's products from now on.

(As a side note, last summer the two of us pulled my car into our garage and hit it with a few of the Meguiar's products that we had picked up from a store. We put in the entire day working mostly by hand, and the dull paint polished up beautifully! We'll be doing this again, as we'll be putting my car up for sale when we order my Patriot in a couple of months.)

So for someone that wasn't really interested in attending and learning all about waxes, compounds, polishes, chemicals and whatnot…I really enjoyed myself. The information, knowledge and technique that was passed on to us is really enough for you to start your very own detailing business. In fact, there was a young man there that was working on just that.

If anyone ever has the opportunity to attend one of these classes, I say go for it. I realize that this crowd may not have the special interest of keeping their Jeeps shiny and scratch-free, but some of you might. And some of you might have other cars that you like to baby.

Anyways…here is a Shutterfly link to our photos from the day:

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Here is the address to Meguiar's website:

http://www.meguiars.com

And here is the address to the Meguiar's Online Forum:

http://meguiarsonline.com/Default.aspx

That's our class, the ZONC club, under the Car Detailing Classes link. And that's me, waay in the back, in the gray sweatshirt hoodie. (It was cold in there!)

Those of you that are using the Mopar products for cleaning your Jeeps…take another look at the label. Does it say Meguiar's anywhere on there? One of the things we learned is that Meguiar's has partnered with some companies that want specialized cleaners for their products. Chrysler is one of them, and that is where the Mopar cleaners come in. Meguiars makes cleaners for them, and puts their name on the label as well. There is a furniture company and a door company that have the same deal with them. Pretty neat.

Also…a couple of tips I thought I'd pass on. When detailing the outside of your car, use painter's tape to tape off the rubber/trim areas of your car that you don't want to get wax residue on. Really helps.

And I learned something about the care of leather/vinyl seats and applying product. Don't apply the product directly to the seats. You'll gunk up your seams that way. Instead, apply the product to your cloth, then wipe onto the seat.

And micro fiber and terrycloth are better to use over plain cotton, such as tees. Why? The fabric of micro fiber and terrycloth is textured better…thus giving anything that is microscopic and sitting on top of your paint somewhere to go. Tees and other "smooth" fabric will simply push these contaminants across your paint, leaving scratches in the clear coat.

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Because Words Sometimes Fail Me

There is a sympathy card sitting on my counter at work. Everyone in my division is signing it because someone in our department recently lost a son in the war in Iraq.

Let me rephrase that. Less than three years after losing a son in the war in Iraq, a family in our community just lost asecond son in the war. A third son accompanied his brother's body from the scene of the crash all the way to the United States before returning to California ahead of his deceased brother.

The family is, understandably, devastated. The entire community mourns their loss.

My heart aches for them.

My dilemma is in what to write inside the sympathy card. I hate sympathy cards. I never know what to say in these kinds of situations.

How do you scrape words together to convey your sympathy without sounding prefabricated?

"Thinking of you."

"…in our thoughts and prayers…"

"With deepest sympathy."

I don't seem to have the ability to string a sentence or two together that sounds like I want it to sound. Everything I come up with seems to sound so hollow and empty to me.

How do I tell this family that I genuinely empathize with them? That I know the heartache of seeing a loved one go off to fight in a war - that I know the fear of never seeing someone that I love come back from that battleground? I know what it is like to go through the routine of my daily life, all the while thinking of a loved one that is fighting to keep me safe and comfortable at home. I know how it feels to be so proud of someone for the sacrifices that they're making - the life that they're living - all so that things can be better for all of us back here. But I can never, everbegin to imagine the pain of such a loss. I can't even begin to come close to saying that I know how it feels - because this family feels a pain that I can't even begin to attempt to relate to.

My heart goes out to them - it truly does. I hope that with time their wounds will heal. I can hope that as the days, months and years go by, they will be able to recover from this tragedy that has ripped holes in their family and in their hearts. I don't know if time will make their hearts heal altogether, but hopefully they can find a way to cope.

I want to find just a few words to put in this card - to convey all of that and sound genuine. I've been tossing thoughts around in my head all week, hoping to find just the right combination of words that will feel right.

Hopefully they'll come to me.

And hopefully this family will be able to find peace in their sorrow.

Saturday, August 11, 2007

I'm Southern, Alright?

Those of you that know me know that I am a Southern Girl.  And I love my Sweet Tea.  So much so that I celebrated my return to the South and the readily available heaven-on-ice that is my Sweet Tea, available practically everywhere.  Everywhere that counts, that is.

Unfortunately, that reunion was to be short lived when Hubby accepted a job offer that would bring us out West.  We came out on a house-hunting excursion and I clung to the pre-made Lipton bottles available from the convenience store's refrigerated cases.  I got strange looks from the cashier when I appeared at the register with half a dozen bottles.  I just looked at her and said, "I'm from the South."  That should explain it all.  But alas, the Lipton substitute with the blue label (sweetened, no lemon) left me with a bitter aftertaste.  This love affair would not last long.

I was beginning to mourn my precious Sweet Tea, when my mother-in-law came to the rescue with a Mr. Coffee tea brewer that came with not one, but two pitchers!

Now my sweeter-than-thou beverage is readily available from my own fridge...and I've spread the wealth by bringing the sweetness to work with me.

I always tell people, "I'm from the South.  I like my tea sweet, and sweetened right."  That means made with real sugar, and it has to be added while the tea is still hot from the brewing process.  If you fail in that crucial step, the sugar doesn't melt in the tea, and you're left with a granulated mess.  Thus, I can't order tea in restaurants and add sugar when it arrives.  That's just not right.

While perusing the internet today, I stumbled across this article on the South's love affair with Sweet Tea.  It pretty much hits the nail on the head - Southeners love their tea, and they love it sweet.  Anyone that lives in the South and doesn't love their Sweet Tea just ain't right.

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I Wish I Lived in a Land of Lipton

What makes Southern sweet tea so special?

Saturday, August 4, 2007

Touch

The simple act of Touch has a powerful effect.

Every day, my dogs cuddle up to me, nudging me. All they want is for me to Touch them. A pat on the head in passing, a scratch behind the ears, rubbing their temples. The simple act of my Touching them gives them comfort and reassurance. They are happy and respond with relaxed grunts and thumping tails. They are validated in their "good dog" status once more.

I feel their life vibes penetrate into me when I Touch them. I am momentarily calmed - my dogs have served an immense purpose in those few seconds of contact. I feel their love and adoration whenever they curl at my feet, rest their heads in my lap or nudge me with their icy cold little noses. They love me, just as I love them, and they want to take a moment to share that love with me.

Even my independent and free thinking cats value Touch. They will curl up next to me on the couch, Kismet nesting his head against me, prodding me with a cold nudge of his nose. He craves my Touch, and if I try to pull my hand away he reaches out and pulls it back. Taboo will lay next to me on the couch, his paw extended out specifically for the Touch of my skin. He is known to perch himself on the floor…waiting to roll over for a belly rub if we should make eye contact. The contact of my hand on their soft fur is comforting and brings relaxation.

Skin on skin. The art and comfort behind the Touch.

When I walk by my Hubby, more often than not I reach out and make contact. I'll kiss the top of his head, run my hand along his bare shoulders. I always take an opportunity to Touch him in passing.  Playful pats, lingering brushes.  The Touch of lovers. I feel his warm skin make contact with mine, and in an instant love is communicated, without words.

I take every opportunity to press our skin together - kisses, holding hands, leaning into him while watching television, spooning at night, touching our feet together. The lifetime of long separations makes the act of Touch more valuable to me. There are long stretches of time when our skin cannot contact - I cannot feel the warmth of his body next to mine. It is during these long, lonely stretches that my skin aches for him - to be Touched by him.

The smallest Touch brings comfort and warmth. I seek it in my every day existence and find it here - among my loved ones. I am blessed to have this much love in my life, and to be able to feel the love without expressing it in words…through the simple act of reaching out and Touching one another.

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

He Came Home

After eight months and 14 days of waiting, worrying and wondering…my Hubby is finally home.

Separation seems to be constantly in our stars. In seven and a half years of marriage, how much of that time have we really been together? Well, right away, I can tick off just over two full years of separation…and then add in the fact that before we moved in together we only saw each other on weekends…plus almost a full year of total separation before we even got married…surely you can do the math there…

This was his second trip to the sandbox. He was gone from February of 2004 to February of 2005 (49 weeks total), and again from November of 2006 to July of 2007. That's right…he was home for almost exactly 20 months before going again.

I manage to keep things together pretty well when he's gone. Our very scattered life together has trained me well for that.

It didn't start off so easy - in 1999, when he broke the news to me that his employer was going to be sending him away to another state to work for an indefinite period of time, it broke my heart. We were at Disney World...The Happiest Place on Earth…and I would just spontaneously burst into tears. It totally baffled our waiter at breakfast one morning…poor guy. All he wanted to know was what I wanted for breakfast, and the next thing he knows I'm in a puddle of tears in the restaurant of the Wilderness Lodge.

Our next long-term separation was when Hubby joined the Army. He went away to basic training and then to school to learn his job. By the time I joined him in Alabama I was getting used to the separation, but it wasn't any easier. Added to that was the fact that I had uprooted from my friends and family and moved to this alien landscape.

A shorter, yet just as heart-wrenching, separation happened when he went overseas without me. I should have been with him, but thanks to the idiocy of a woman in Alabama, I was not. It took some finagling, and a well worded email to a person in the chain of command, but after a very short separation we were back together again.

And as luck would have it, from February of 2001 until February of 2004, our separations would be minimal. A month here, a month there. Mere drops in the bucket compared to what we had been through in the past.

And then the Orders came down the pipe. My Husband would be headed off to a war zone. I managed to keep it together for this news. We worked as a team to prepare for his departure. Some things got taken care of around the house, and in a whirlwind of activity the time came for him to leave. I handled the good-bye really well…until I was walking back to my car in the snowy and icy parking lot and the buses of soldiers drove by on their way to the airport. That's when it hit me…with a groan I realized that there was a very real chance that I may never see my Hubby alive again. As we all rushed to the side of the street to wave goodbye to these brave heroes, I'm sure that all the other spouses around me felt the same knot in their hearts. What if???

Overall, I handled that separation very well. I was sick for an entire week when I realized that Hubby was convoying from Kuwait to his duty station in Iraq. When the calls stopped coming, I knew what was happening…no one had to tell me. It wasn't until I got my next call from him, letting me know that he arrived safely, that I was OK again.

The months ticked by and I kept myself busy with work, travel and friends. And then he came home to me…safe and sound. Alive and well. I was so grateful.

Now we have survived another separation…very similar to the last one, yet somehow so different. He is home again, and I am again thankful to have him here with me…for however long it lasts.

These separations…especially the ones where he leaves to go off to a war zone and I can never be one hundred percent sure that he'll be coming back to me…they've changed me somehow. When I see footage or read articles about families saying goodbye to their loved ones, or greeting them after a long separation…or when I see footage and memorials of those that weren't lucky enough to make it back to their loved ones…or even when I hear a particularly poignant song on the radio…my heart wrenches and I have to pull myself together. I can feel my eyes start welling up and I have to fight back the emotions that want to burst forth.

I can very much relate to all of the people in those situations. I've bravely said goodbye and I love you to the man that I plan to spend the rest of my life with…holding myself together while he marches off to a foreign land and not knowing for sure that I'll see or hear him again. The thought tries to come forward…"What would I do without him…noreally without him…what if he doesn't come back?" But I fight that cloud…stubbornly telling myself that he'll be home again. But at the same time, I am more vulnerable because of it…I have to fight the creeping darkness until he returns and brings the light with him that will banish the dark thoughts again.

I have grown in strength because of these separations. Now he is home again and we can settle back into our familiar patterns. There is no cloud of impending separation looming over us for now. We can bask in the glow of being reunited, and as that glow fades with time we will find ourselves moving on with life and enjoying our time together.

We have to enjoy our time together…because we refuse to delude ourselves into thinking that the separation won't happen again. Oh, what a pleasant surprise it would be if it never happened again! But if it does, we will charge ahead fully prepared to meet the challenges…and I will again fight the dark clouds of negativity that insist on creeping into my mind.

Wednesday, July 4, 2007

Eight Months Gone

Today marks eight months since Hubby officially left home on his journey to the sandbox. What has happened and changed over the past month?

- Number of meals cooked this month: 0 
   
Running total for deployment: 0
   (Note that I do not count frozen pizzas, chicken nuggets or baking a hamburger in the oven as cooking.)

- Special Note: While I DID make baked beans for a day out on the lake…they are not a full meal, therefore they do not rank in the meal-counter.

- Scrapalooza…seems to be at a rest. I didn't scrap any pages this month. I just didn't seem to have the motivation this time around…

- Mechanical Emergency Number Five: My computer crashed. It just up-and-decided not to start on me one day. After I emailed Hubby to let him know that my internet access would be very limited until he returns home to fix the computer, he rode in to the rescue with a new laptop. Totally unexpected! Now I just hope that he is able to get the old computer up and running long enough to pull all of my stuff off of it…

- What, oh what have I done to deserve the tormenting of the Automotive Gods? As I was driving on the freeway one day, a rock popped up out of nowhere and dinged my windshield. Now I have a little asterisk just of the left of my field of vision in the windshield. Dammit! AND THEN, I was walking Sadie Marie one day and happened to see a little "glint" from one of my tires. I had driven over a screw! Turns out that the Automotive Gods were just toying with my emotions that time…it just stuck itself in the tread and didn't actually penetrate the tire. I really don't want to dump any more money into this car…I just want to sell it and have my Jeep already!!

- I've finally given in and decided to follow through on a promise I made to myself at the beginning of the year, when I started my new job. With the addition of more money to the check, I told myself that I was going to splurge and get myself a fresh pedicure every pay period. Until this month, I hadn't followed through. I finally did, and am in love with the pedicure again! I'm definitely keeping up with this…now if I can only make myself immune to my hatred of the nail file…

- Reports from the Front...summer has brought back two of our college-bound employees. They're in town for the summer, bringing some much needed relief to the office. We've also got a "newbie" on board, so the staffing situation seems to be temporarily resolved…for the time being. The major oddities this month are the capture of a goose and two adorable baby gray foxes. All went to the local wildlife rescue, which was wonderful. And if you think that snakes can't come up your plumbing and through your toilet, guess what. They can! We had a 4-5' constrictor come up into a toilet in the city this month…I never thought those stories were real! But we went and picked up the proof!!

Thursday, June 14, 2007

Nostalgia

I just received a batch of photos from some friends that took a gorgeous, scenic drive through the back roads of Nevada with the local Z car club.  Such gorgeous photos!  Genuinely made me wish that Mike and I had been able to go.

It got me in a bit of a nastalgic mood...so I thought I would post my e-mail summary of a similar trip that we were privileged to go on last October...

Mike and I decided to take advantage of the continuous delays of his impending departure to the giant sandbox this past weekend to sign up for a great trip through his Z Car Club. We had heard about the Z Run to Death Valley back in June, and had our name on the list to go from the start. Then we found out that he would be leaving, so we cancelled our plans. Fortunately, the constant delays of his departure allowed us to take part in the trip after all!

It was a bit of a whirlwind decision…Mike made the phone call to the trip's organizers on Wednesday, we boarded Fred in a local kennel and left on Thursday! We spent Thursday night in Manteca, CA and met up with the drivers on Friday morning to begin the trip. There were 11 Zs participating in the drive. We crossed the Sierra Mountains early in the day on Thursday using the Sonora Pass. This pass is north of the Tioga Pass that we explored a couple of weeks ago. The scenery was just as stunning, although not as rugged as what we found in the John Muir and Ansel Adams Wildernesses. We couldn't have asked for more beautiful weather – the sky was a gorgeous blue scattered with silky white clouds. We even got to see some snow on the way!

Lunch brought us to the town of Lee Vining, and an after-lunch stop at Mono Lake. Mike and I visited this lake briefly a few weeks ago, but did not drive on any of the roads around the lake at that time. We missed out! The Z run cut off of the main highway, and into the Mono Scenic Basin. We stopped to check out the Mono Craters, formed by volcanic activity, and got some great pictures of the lake and distant scenery. From this area, we began entering the more arid areas of the valley that runs between the Sierras and the White Mountains. The road was long and hilly – perfect driving conditions for this group!

We rolled into the town of Bishop for the evening, just in time to miss driving in the huge rain storm that we observed dumping snow on the surrounding mountains! The storm blew through overnight (lots of wind!!), and was still lingering in the early morning when we met in the parking lot to begin the next leg of the journey. In a strange twist of luck, one of our drivers had run over a screw and had a flat tire! I don't know what was funnier…the fact that 4 people were trying to help get the tire fixed, or the fact that they all brought their own gloves on the trip! So this delayed our departure by a couple of hours, which worked in our favor…

Once we were on our way, we took a small diversion off of the main road to check out the Bristlecone Pine Forest…something that isn't in our tour book and not on any of our maps…so Mike and I never knew about it! This forest is the home to the world's oldest trees – and they grow in the worst possible conditions! Nothing else can grow in the dolomite that these trees have rooted themselves in. Mike and I will definitely go back to check out the actual forest and trees in better weather. The previous night's storms had blown in some snow into this area, and we drove as far up into the park as we dared…once we started hitting slush on the road, we all turned around and drove down to the lowest scenic view…which was amazing! This view offered a panorama of the valley below – and awesome views of the neighboring mountains and the weather blowing through. Had we left a couple of hours earlier, we never would have been able to make it as far up the mountain as we did, and the weather wouldn't have been cleared up yet. So a big thank you to Dustin and Makayla (sp?) for sacrificing their tire. J

The trip continued on through an arid valley with very little in sight…just a couple of ranches. We meandered our way into Nevada and passed by an apparently well-known brothel. Of course, we had to stop and take advantage of this photo opportunity! On through Nevada, we entered Death Valley and drove to Scotty's Castle. Everyone took advantage of the opportunity to get out and walk around – some signing up for tours of the castle and others just wandering around the grounds. It was at this point that we were supposed to meet up with about 15 other Z cars from another Z club…but the main road leading through the valley was closed due to the previous night's weather! While we were not all looking forward to adding about 50 miles to our trip by having to drive back into Nevada and enter the park again at a different location to get to our night's lodgings, we really had nothing to worry about. Our "Buzzard Luck" struck again when Steve locked his key in his car and had to call AAA for a rescue. About two hours later, when we were finally deciding to resort to our own methods of unlocking the door to the Mach 5 (with a modified bucket handle, no less!), the AAA guy showed up to a round of applause. After just a few minutes, the car was open, and so was the road! Another unexpected delay worked in our favor, as we could now drive through the valley and check out some more sights.

We stopped at Ubehebe Crater, and thanks to our most fortunate "unluckiness", we had awesome lighting as the sun began its descent past the mountains for the evening. Just goes to show that what might appear as an unfortunate event can often work in your favor! We rounded out the night with a fabulous group dinner at the steak house and a dip in the mineral springs-fed pool.

Sunday saw a morning with no delays – we drove up to Dante's View and Zabriskie Point to check out some amazing panoramas of the valley. Mike and I were very satisfied with this visit to the park, as we saw some things that we didn't see on our last trip through the valley. After a final stop at the hotel for breakfast, we were on our way out of the valley and to our final stop – Ridgecrest for lunch. Mike and I had made this drive before – in rain and fog at night– so we took advantage of being able to enjoy the scenery this time.

After lunch, it was back towards the Sierras and the road home. We passed back through my favorite patch of Joshua Trees that we saw back in January. Upon reaching Lake Isabella nestled in the Sierras, we branched off from the rest of the group and headed home.

Mike and I had a wonderful trip, and hope you enjoy the pictures. There are a lot of them, and be warned that you'll see a lot of pics of cars…but after all, that's what this trip was all about!

Here are the pictures from Friday:

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Here are the pictures from Saturday:

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Here are the pictures from Sunday:

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Wednesday, June 13, 2007

A Glimpse Into The Window

I've started watching a new program on TV. It's called "Army Wives," and it offers me a little flashback into my previous life. It's like if the "Desperate Housewives" had married soldiers…only without all the sex in the storyline.

I'm only two episodes into this series, and I'm pretty impressed. It seems to offer a pretty insightful look into the lives of military spouses. Oh, sure…some of it is a bit dramatized. But you know, I look and see flashes of truth.

There's the two most prominent versions of the "officer's wife." One is the wife that really reaches out to all the spouses, no matter what the rank of their soldier. Claudia Joy is the model of some of the more delightful officer-wives that I met in my experience with the military. She doesn't try to wear her husband's rank, or demand respect because of it. She is warm and genuine and real.

The other officer's wife that they've featured in the storyline so far is the polar opposite. She is snide, condescending and catty. I've seen those wives, too…all too many times.

There's the couple that are struggling financially. I think most lower-enlisted families have been there at some point. Just scraping by and trying to survive and keep the family afloat. This couple (Pamela and her husband) is doing some pretty amazing things to get by, and I'm interested to see where their story goes.

I see the gossips weaving through the scenes. Every base has them…the spouses that just can't mind their own business, and have to gab about other people's affairs. In the first few minutes of the first episode, rumors were flying - and I saw the parallels to real life there, too.

I relate most to the newly married couple. PFC Troy LeBlanc and his wife, Roxy. It takes me back to when Hubby first joined the army. He had five full months to fully immerse himself in the army culture and learn the ins and outs. I came in clueless. Struggling to learn what all those silly acronyms meant, the new "rules" governing our lives. It was hard, and I see Roxy struggling to fit in and adjust, just as I did.

So far, I really like what I see in this show. I can relate. When Roxy found out that her husband is due to ship out to Iraq in a matter of days, my heart sank with hers. I know what it feels like to go through that experience, and it tears my heart out every time. Such experiences have changed me so…I get all emotional and tear up anytime I see something on TV that shows a family being separated or reunited because of the duties of war.

I rejoiced with the Lt. Colonel and her husband when she returned from two years in Afghanistan, because I know what that experience is like, too. Coming together with the person that you love most, the person that you desire to be with no matter what…and then having to experience the unfamiliar as you learn about each other all over again. I watch their reintegration experience with keen interest…thankful that Hubby and I have not had such trying experiences. Praying that we never will.

I've noticed that this show seems to really try to focus on the truths of military life. The housing that the lower-enlisted are living in are almost mirrors of where Hubby and I lived in Alabama. We referred to our little duplex as the "crack house" with good reason. It was by no means luxurious, but it was shelter and it was free, and we were thankful. I see the houses that the officers and their families are in and reflect that yes, this seems to be true to life as well.

I want this show to reflect the closeness of military life. How people run into each other at many different duty stations throughout their military life. How the base operates as its own little city…you see all these people every day…you live together, you work together, your kids all go to the same school and daycare, you all shop at the same places. You run into each other at the bank, the gas station, the store, the library. There is no getting away, and that can swing either for the good or the bad.

I hope that this show stays the course and does well. It seems that so many shows fail to make it past the first few episodes anymore. I'm almost afraid to become a devotee to any show because of the fickleness of the industry. But I see that this show has potential. With a bit of time and seasoning, I think that it may offer a peek into the trials and tribulations of the military lifestyle…something that the average person most likely will never get a taste of any other way. It is a unique experience…full of personal little successes and failures. I hope this show is that window…letting other people see what it is like inside the cultured existence that is military life.

Monday, June 4, 2007

Seven Months Gone

Today marks seven months since Hubby officially left home on his journey to the sandbox. What has happened and changed over the past month?

- Number of meals cooked this month: 0 
  
Running total for deployment: 0
(Note that I do not count frozen pizzas, chicken nuggets or baking a hamburger in the oven as cooking.)

- EEP!! Only about two more months until Hubby returns!! That's so exciting!! I've noticed a pattern whenever he leaves for a long time. The first few months of separation fly by so fast, the next few drag along and are pretty difficult, and the final three or so are full of excitement and anticipation about his return. I've finally entered the excitement and anticipation stage - I can't wait for him to come back home!!

- Scrapalooza saw the completion of 31 pages. I'm still trapped in 2004, and need to find my way to our departure from Europe in October of 2005 before the Hubby gets back if I'm going to meet my goal. I'd better get my ass in gear and start scrapping hardcore again!

- Sweet Sadie has graduated to being able to sleep in the bed with me at night. There are no destructive messes in the house, and she has finally learned the schedule! It is so comforting to have her body curled up next to mine in the bed. Just the presence of another being in the bed is nice these days. Of course, Fred always has to "one better" Sadie. Since she now has a place in the bed, he has started sleeping on his Daddy's pillows! They truly are silly pups - and they love each other's company so much!

- For the record, the Black Beast (Hubby's car) seems to be falling apart while on my watch, and I am totally not amused. In addition to the leaky power steering fluid, causing the Hicas light to keep coming on…now the antenna won't work properly. Garr! It's not my fault, I swear! And I'm concentrating on keeping my Granny Mobile in good running order long enough to sell it later this year…in order to herald in the Era of the Heep!!

- No additions to the garden this month. I'm concentrating on maintaining my army of plants and trying to keep as much alive as I can in the face of the impending heat wave that we call Summer here in the Central Valley. I fear that most of my container garden will perish in the intense heat of the summer. I'm intensely hoping to have some sort of cover in place over our west-facing patio by this time next year…maybe I'll have better luck then.

- Reports from the Front...Stress level - pretty high. Work is keeping me going full steam ahead. We're totally slammed these days, with barely enough staff to keep going. I'm hanging in there…there is a small skeleton crew keeping things afloat until who knows when. It's bringing us all closer together, though…and that is a huge positive. We've instituted an awesome new coping mechanism…Mad Libs! OMG - they're so funny! We all look forward to the designated Mad Lib time of the day. We find ourselves literally rolling on the floor in laughter - which is a good thing. We all need something funny to look forward to every day, and this seems to fit the bill. I got bitten this month - by a little POS dog - my hand didn't turn blue or fall off, so I guess I'll live. And no bull…well, okay…maybe a little bull. We had a bull running in the city this month! It was quite the story - made for a very interesting week when it happened.J And speaking of the week of the bull, during the very same week we also brought in a ferret (illegal in Cali - who knew?…well, apparently the cop that pulled over the car that had said ferret as a passenger knew…), a giant iguana, a python sighting and the turn over of a family of hamsters. We have quite the menagerie!

Thursday, May 24, 2007

The Ballad Of The Bull

Our bull finally has a home! I just happened to be available to go with Boss Lady to meet the Cattle Men that are taking Ponson to his new home.

Through the Animal Services grapevine, Boss Lady was able to track down some Cattle Men that were willing to drive down from another county and load Ponson up and take him away to join their herd.

Boss Lady and I met up with the Cattle Men this evening at the rodeo grounds and got to see the action take place. The Cattle Men backed up their trailer, got the runs between the pens blocked off so that Ponsen had nowhere to go except into the trailer, and with minimal problems got him loaded up!

The whole process took less than ten minutes…it's amazing how quickly it works when you actually deal with cattle for a living. Cattle Men used a little batch of hay to lure Ponson towards the trailer. Ponson started to go for it, then decided he didn't like the idea of climbing up into another trailer so quickly. So he trotted around the run for a couple of minutes…checking out the horses and just bucking around. Then the Cattle Men got out a couple of long sticks to help prod him in the right direction…then with some shouts of "Hup!! Hup!!" Ponson was up in the trailer and shooed to the front. He was locked into place and given some hay, and then he was off to a better place.

Hooray for Ponson!!

Ponson checking out all this new activity

Loaded up, secured and ready to go!

Happy trails to you!!

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

Rollin' Rollin' Rollin'

Today was another seemingly unassuming day at the office…

…or so it seemed.

I started the day thankful that I had gone in on Sunday and put in a few hours. I was able to get some of the tedious Monday morning tasks out of the way. Logging the weekend's dispatch calls, calculating and balancing the weekend's monetary intake, logging licenses sold. These are things that usually pile up on me first thing Monday morning…while I'm trying to stay afloat through the influx of phone calls, bark complaints and miscellaneous crap that flies our way first thing in the week.

This morning, I worked on organizing personnel files and correcting some paperwork. We were all in a jolly mood - laughing and joking as only our crew can. We were plugging through our morning and getting caught up.

And then it was ten o'clock.

Supervisor had gone off in the Mack Daddy to deliver some animals to one of our veterinarian offices for surgeries. Boss Lady and I were reveling in the fresh reorganization of her office that we completed over the weekend. Field-Officer-In-Training (FOIT) had declared today to be an organizational day for herself, and was diligently working on organizing her work bag and inventorying our excess uniform bits and bobs. The police radio was chirping away in the background…senseless babble that we keep turned on so that we have the appearance that we keep up with what is going on in the city. Meanwhile, in the shelter, Livestock Officer (dubbed as such because she's in school to become a large-animal vet) and our janitorial staff were seeing to the animals and taking care of the building.

I was chatting and joking with the Boss Lady, and was walking through the office when I was stopped cold in my tracks. I wasn't sure I had heard what I thought I just heard coming across the police radio…could it be? Were my ears playing tricks on me? It was one of those moments when I wished that I had TiVo for the radio…just back it up a bit and listen again.

I stopped and looked at FOIT and asked her, "Did I just hear that right? Did they say 'bull?'" Both FOIT and Boss Lady stopped and asked me, "What?"

"I think I just heard them (Dispatch) talking about a bull…"

Sure enough, the phone rings. While FOIT and Boss Lady are experiencing a new state of baffledness (we're all baffled at one time or another in our department), I answered the phone. At least this time M in dispatch let me get through my introductory spiel before he started talking. And when he identified himself, it was in a fit of laughter. To which I replied, "M…did I just hear you guys right? There's a bull loose?"

Yes, he assured me…there is a bull loose at the intersection of X and Y streets.

Innnteresting.

I confirm verbally to Boss Lady and FOIT that yes, indeed there is a bull loose in the city. Boss Lady is in denial - "It's a prank call…it's gotta be," she declared. M must have heard her because he said, "No…I've gotten a lot of calls on it…it's there." As I furiously scribble notes on my notepad, Boss Lady gets on her cell phone and dials up Livestock Officer.

"Get over here and get your ropin' boots on," she yells, "We've got a bull loose in the city!"

Understandably, this must have come as a surprise to Livestock Officer, because Boss Lady had to repeat herself.

As I'm writing up the call on our official log, I look at Boss Lady and I can see the wheels spinning. She's thinking to herself, "What the hell are we going to do with a bull?" She scurries to the key hooks and starts inventorying the vehicles we have on site. Mack Daddy is gone, leaving us with the van and the little truck. Hmm.

Meanwhile, Livestock Officer comes blowing into the building to pull on her uniform top and duty belt. The first words out of her mouth are, "Finally!! I get to rope something!!"

As she rushes to get her gear on, Boss Lady and I shout to let her know where to meet us, and we're out the door, FOIT in tow. Boss Lady and I jump into the van, while FOIT hops into her own truck. She's coming along to observe, but can't stay because she has an appointment to get to.

Boss Lady and I take flight out of the parking lot (almost literally - there's a HUGE dip in the parking lot that you can go airborne over if you're not careful), and as we pull out to the end of the driveway and turn onto the main road, I decide to call Supervisor.

"You must not be listening to your radio," I tell her, "because if you were, I would have heard from you by now."

"Uh oh," she responds, "what's going on now."

"There's a bull loose," I tell her, knowing what is coming next.

"A what?!?"

Turns out that Supervisor has just exited the freeway and is mere minutes behind us. We let her know where to meet us and we're on our way.

As we cross the main thoroughfare through the city and approach the next stop, Boss Lady asks me which direction we're headed at the intersection. Like I know…I have no clue how to navigate this city! Fortunately, the large crowd just east of the intersection offers us a huge indication of where we should be.

And sure enough, there is our bull…tethered to a tree.

The fire department apparently received an emergency call…it seems that in all the kerfuffle of having a bullwandering the streets just one block south of the city's main thoroughfare, citizens decided to try to get involved.

Did they think that the bull was cute and cuddly? Heeeere, bully, bully. A citizen's arrest, maybe??

By the time we arrived on scene, the fire department had managed to rope the bull and had him secured to a huge tree in someone's front yard. They were still in the process of securing the ropes when Boss Lady and I pulled in.

"Livestock Officer is going to be disappointed," I comment, "She didn't get to rope herself a bull."

And then, I've never seen someone take action quite like this…Boss Lady is right there in the thick of things. Finding out the whos, whats, whens, wheres and whys of it all. A couple of police officers were on scene. (One declared, "I grew up in the city of Compton…we aint' got to worry about things like this there!") The public is standing by. Livestock Officer is barreling out of the little truck with her lasso ready to go. Supervisor pulls up in the Mack Daddy and takes the entire scene in.

Meanwhile, Boss Lady is already on the phone…figuring out how we're going to get this bloody bull transported to someplace that we can store it.

Right. Somehow, I don't think that our chain link fence back at the shelter is going to manage to contain this one…

After a few minutes on scene to find our footing…when everyone and their mother has to come by and offer their take on events, the fire fighters are taking their pictures with the bull, some older man in a denim shirt is relaying a story about how a little old lady thought she could step out of her car and coax the bull her way - only to have second thoughts when it started to charge her, some incredibly sort and sweaty man is going on and on about making sure that he gets his rope back (I think he was the first one to get a rope around the bull's horns), a topless man in incredibly loose-fitting sweat pants (surely those things were a municipal code violation in themselves!) and long greasy gray hair is wandering around the scene offering tidbits of information, and people are just walking up to the thing thinking that a petting zoo has sprung up in the middle of the city...Boss Lady has finally organized a game planand managed to pull transportation for the bull out of her ass. We'll use the mounted patrol's truck and trailer to haul the beast out to the rodeo grounds and store it in a pen there.

So Livestock Officer and I take off in the little truck and head to the police department to pick up the truck and trailer. It takes awhile to track down the keys, get the truck and make sure the trailer is still hooked up and ready to go. But we eventually get everything sorted out and are back on scene before too much time has elapsed.

Pulling back up to the scene behind the wheel of the little truck, I am amazed at the sight before me. There is Adoption Center Employee (ACE), on scene and helping with the bull. And it's her day off! It's like de ja vu!!  I whip the little truck into a parking spot and cross the street, declaring, "Well, look who it is! The Adoption Center Employee!!"

I quickly follow up with, "You know, that thing isn't going to be adoptable."

She just laughed. Apparently, she had been across town, unwittingly running personal errands when her phone rang. It was Supervisor declaring, "Guess what I'm doing, guess what I'm doing!!" Having been informed of the morning's events, ACE dropped her morning itinerary and sped across town to either help, or watch the freak show unfold.

After a few minutes of organizing ourselves and getting our gear into place, Livestock Officer has managed to whip up a makeshift halter out of the sweaty wee-man's rope. Like she's a master of origami or something. The owner of the bull has turned up and is now under a barrage of questions. Is it halter trained? No, but I ride it sometimes.

What??

It takes ACE, Livestock Officer, Bull Owner and Boss Lady to get the silly bull moving. At this point, you can tell that Supervisor and I obviously have little to no livestock experience. We're just standing back and watching…supervisor making sure that everyone is moving together, and me with a camera snapping photos.

Yes, I've declared myself to be the official Animal Services Archivist.

The wrangler team manages to get the bull lead over to the waiting trailer. Everyone positions themselves and gets ready, and then they're coaxing the bull into the trailer. He's not too thrilled about this…apparently he's not too keen on going for a little drive. Livestock Officer is up in the trailer pulling the halter and calls down to the Bull Owner to twist the bull's tail. She later explained that if you want to get a bull to move, twisting its tail is the key. Apparently, that is also a surefire way to get a bull to take a massive shit all over the place, because that is what happened. Fortunately, Bull Owner was closest in proximity to the landing zone…

With the bull finally in the trailer and tied down to ensure that he won't go anywhere, we begin the tedious process of getting ready to go. But there is a small glitch in the plan…in the process of getting the bull up into the trailer, he tore off half of the rubber bumper. Livestock Officer is having a fit…she spent a good five minutes repairing this bumper before we even took the truck out of the police department.

Boss Lady is now in her prime operating mode. She takes one look at the bumper half resting on the street and asks for someone to go get a slip-lead. Yes…in the world of Animal Services, the slip lead is just as valuable as duct tape.There isn't anything that we can't create or secure with a hefty supply of these little nylon leashes. A little bit of wrapping, pulling and knot tying sees the bumper now securely attached to the trailer.

Amazing.

So in the blink of an eye, we've formed a caravan of animal services vehicles to escort our guest of honor across the city. Boss Lady takes the lead in the van, followed by Livestock Officer and the bull in the mounted patrol truck and trailer, ACE in her own SUV, Supervisor in the Mack Daddy and me in the little truck. We wind our way through the city, an honor guard of sorts.

In the police truck with the radio going, I hear Boss Lady log on and inform Dispatch to show Animal Services enroute to the rodeo grounds. Unable to skip a beat, I'm on my cell phone to Supervisor quipping, "And by 'show Animal Services enroute to the rodeo grounds'…she means all of us!"

It doesn't take long to get to our destination. We line up all the vehicles and locate the pens - and graciously find an empty one right up front. While Livestock Officer is backing the truck and trailer up to the pens, the rest of us are forming a game plan. I'm to brace one of the gates…with the intent of not letting the bull push through the gate and wind up in the wrong area. Supervisor is to use her body to block the gap to the left of the trailer, so that the bull cannot escape. The goal is to coax the bull off of the trailer and into the pen without incident.

Right. Like if there's any indication that the bull is going to veer off course and head in the direction of either of us, Supervisor and I aren't going to dive out of the way. We might be crazy, but we're not stupid.

Fortunately, the bull comes off the trailer with just a bit of coaxing, and no real fighting. Granted, Livestock Officer was pulling with all her might, and Boss Lady and ACE were behind pushing for all that they were worth…but it could have been worse. In a few minutes, he's in a pen and ACE, Boss Lady and Livestock Officer have removed the ropes that bound him.

The fire department arrives to reclaim their rope, and I am tasked with returning the other rope to the wee man that loaned it to us.

When I show up at his house to hand over his rope to him, he appears to have lost his shirt. eeewww!!

We all return back to our mundane existence, out in the Animal Services compound.  With the added bonus of throwing bull jokes around for the rest of the day.

Once again, all is right with the world.

We later found out that the entire police department had their radios tuned in and turned up…following the progress of our saga from start to finish. So happy that we could all provide a little bit of entertainment in their day.

In a weird twist of fate, I was wearing the same sandals that I had on when I went on my dog-chasing excursion. They're my favorite pair, but I'm beginning to think that they're cursed.

And this time we had one officer in complete uniform.

At least I got my morning cup of coffee.

Move 'em on, head 'em up 
Head 'em up, move 'em on 
Move 'em on, head 'em up 
Rawhide 
Count 'em out, ride 'em in, 
Ride 'em in, count 'em out, 
Count 'em out, ride 'em in 
Rawhide!